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Friday, November 18, 2011

Cucu Kesayangan

Agak lama dah tak update blog ni , Hari ini aku nak cerita tentang orang yang tersayang aku. Armand firdaus adalah cucu aku yang tinggal bersama sejak dia dilahir. Sekarang dia dah berusia lima tahun lebih dah bersekolah tadika.. Mak bapa dan adik2nya tinggal di putrajaya, Pada minggu lepas mak dia balik dan membawa dia balik kesana dan akan bersekolah disana pada tahun depan. Oleh kerana dia tak nak ikut mak dia balik terpaksalah atuk dia ikut sekali. Yang tinggal di rumah hanya aku angah dan Usu . Angah selalu pegi travelling.Usu keja shift dan aku keja office hours . Jadi kami pun jarang bersama  dan lebih terasa dengan ketiadaan  armand Aku masih teringat dia yang suka berebut laptop dengan aku dan aku selalu mengalah apabila dia nak main game. Aku harap dia lekas mesra dengan mak, ayah dan adik2 .

Thursday, August 11, 2011

Come Walk With Me

Come Walk With Me


Come on and walk with me
For together we will see,
All the things that make us
As special as you and me.

Our friendship is so amazing

I can’t believe we’re here,
I can only wish that you and I
Will never shed a tear.

Will our friendship live forever?
I certainly hope this so,
As I have never met anyone
who has been a friend so long ago.

Come on and walk with me
So together we can be,
Best friends for now and ever
However, whenever and forever!

Wednesday, August 10, 2011

Tanda Tanda Kematian

Tanda tanda kematian
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Ini adalah tanda pertama dari Allah SWT
kepada hambanya dan hanya
akan disedari oleh mereka yang
dikehendakinya. Walaubagaimanapun
semua orang Islam akan mendapat tanda
ini cuma samada mereka sedar
atau tidak sahaja. Tanda ini akan
berlaku lazimnya selepas waktu Asar.

Seluruh tubuh iaitu dari hujung rambut
sehingga ke hujung kaki akan
mengalami getaran atau seakan-akan
mengigil. Contohnya seperti daging
lembu yang baru saja disembelih dimana
jika diperhatikan dengan
teliti kita akan mendapati daging
tersebut seakan-akan bergetar.
Tanda ini rasanya lazat dan bagi mereka
yang sedar dan berdetik di
hati bahawa mungkin ini adalah tanda
mati maka getaran ini akan
berhenti dan hilang setelah kita sedar
akan kehadiran tanda ini.
Bagi mereka yang tidak diberi kesedaran
atau mereka yang hanyut
dengan kenikmatan tanpa memikirkan soal
kematian, tanda ini akan
lenyap begitu sahaja tanpa sebarang
munafaat.
Bagi yang sedar dengan kehadiran tanda
ini maka ini adalah peluang
terbaik untuk memunafaatkan masa yang
ada untuk mempersiapkan diri
dengan amalan dan urusan yang akan
dibawa atau ditinggalkan sesudah
mati.


TANDA 40 HARI

Tanda ini juga akan berlaku sesudah
waktu Asar. Bahagian pusat kita
akan berdenyut-denyut. Pada ketika ini
daun yang tertulis nama kita
akan gugur dari pokok yang letaknya di
atas Arash Allah SWT.
Maka Malaikat Maut akan mengambil daun
tersebut dan mula membuat
persediaannya ke atas kita, antaranya
ialah ia akan mula mengikuti
kita sepanjang masa. Akan terjadi
Malaikat Maut ini akan
memperlihatkan wajahnya sekilas lalu dan
jika ini terjadi, mereka
yang terpilih ini akan merasakan
seakan-akan bingung seketika.
Adapun Malaikat Maut ini wujudnya cuma
seorang tetapi kuasanya untuk
mencabut nyawa adalah bersamaan dengan
jumlah nyawa yang akan
dicabutnya.
TANDA 7 HARI
Adapun tanda ini akan diberikan hanya
kepada mereka yang diuji dengan
musibah kesakitan di mana orang sakit
yang tidak makan secara
tiba-tiba ianya berselera untuk makan.


TANDA 3 HARI

Pada ketika ini akan terasa denyutan di
bahagian tengah dahi kita
iaitu diantara dahi kanan dan kiri. Jika
tanda ini dapat dikesan maka
berpuasalah kita selepas itu supaya
perut kita tidak mengandungi
banyak najis dan ini akan memudahkan
urusan orang yang akan
memandikan kita nanti.

Ketika ini juga mata hitam kita tidak
akan bersinar lagi dan bagi
orang yang sakit hidungnya akan
perlahan-lahan jatuh dan ini dapat
dikesan jika kita melihatnya dari
bahagian sisi. Telinganya akan layu
dimana bahagian hujungnya akan
beransur-ansur masuk ke dalam.
Telapak kakinya yang terlunjur akan
perlahan-lahan jatuh ke depan dan
sukar ditegakkan.


TANDA 1 HARI

Akan berlaku sesudah waktu Asar di mana
kita akan merasakan satu
denyutan di sebelah belakang iaitu di
kawasan ubun-ubun di mana ini
menandakan kita tidak akan sempat untuk
menemui waktu Asar keesokan
harinya.


TANDA AKHIR

Akan berlaku keadaan di mana kita akan
merasakan satu keadaan sejuk
di bahagian pusat dan ianya akan turun
ke pinggang dan seterusnya
akan naik ke bahagian halkum.
Ketika ini hendaklah kita terus mengucap
kalimah syahadah dan berdiam
diri dan menantikan kedatangan
malaikatmaut untuk menjemput kita
kembali kepada Allah SWT yang telah
menghidupkan kita dan sekarang
akan mematikan pula.

Sesungguhnya mengingati mati itu adalah bijak.
Saling berpesan2lah sesama kita

Friday, June 17, 2011

Sabah Snake Grass @ Belalai Gajah

Good info for sharing.
 
The news was published on 4/5 & 4/6 @ Guang Ming Daily. The plant is available at Penang Snake Temple, Ayer Item Market,  BM Desa Rambai Market etc. More details pls refer to the newspaper or contact Mr Lau h/p 010-3814643.
                                    

Sabah Snake Grass @ Belalai Gajah

Good News!!!
Recently, I met a man who had Lymphatic Cancer - Stage 4 with 123 lymph nodes affected. His cancer started in March 2008.

Affected parts: 1st: Right lung, 2nd: Left lung, 3rd: Groin, 4th: Eye and 5th Mouth.
After 9 chemo therapies he stopped the treatment on 10/11/2008 because 5 specialists said he can only survive for 3 months. Today, after more than 2 years, he has recovered and is still living. Thanks to the Sabah Snake Grass (Clinacanthus) which he planted outside his house.
He blended the leaves with green apple (minus skin and seeds) and drank them after breakfast everyday.

After 3 days, 6 tumours disappeared.
After 13 days, he went for a blood test.The oncologist said that he was 96% cured.

So far more than 200 people who had taken the herbs showed improvement.

Case 1) Man - age 54
             Lung Cancer: 3rd stage.
            Chemothrapy 6 times
            Tumour before taking Sabah Snake Grass 29mm, 44mm, 76mm
            Tumour two weeks after taking Sabah Snake Grass
            reduced to 20mm, 27mm, 67mm respectively

Case 2) Woman
             Uterus cancer ¨C tumour size 6cm
             Scheduled for surgery. After taking SSG, reduced to 3.5cm.
             Doctor said no need to operate 
             Continue taking the SSG, the tumour disappeared.

Case 3) Man
            Prostate Cancer
            After taking SSG for 11 days, the tumour disappeared.
 
Case 4) Woman from KL
             Breast and Lung Cancer
             Both breasts removed - 4 stage. Very weak, cannot eat,
             on drip and lying in hospital.
             Family member poured SSG juice into her mouth through tube.
             After a few days, could eat and was discharged.
            28 days later was all tumours disappeared.

Case 5) Woman from Taiping
             Breast Cancer
            After taking SSG for 3 days, the wound dried up.

Case 6) Leukemia Patients
            So far 4 cases have been cured after drinking SSG juice.
            They also drank juice from 3 leaves of Guo Sai Por
            (Ti Tham Tou) once per week.

Case 7) Dialysis Patients
             After taking SSG for 10 days, stopped going for dialysis
             treatment

Case 8) Patients with High Cholesterol, High Blood, High Uric Acid
             and Diabetes
             After taking SSG, the conditions improved.
The Plant

Tuesday, June 14, 2011

Miserable rich. Is it true wealth can not buy happiness?


Miserable rich
Is it true wealth can not buy happiness? If true, what kind of happiness that can be defined without eating, if the property had to ask? And what about the rich family is known to have property and money otherwise plagued with many episodes of suffering that brings sorrow in the tragic deaths, including suicide?
                                 Lara a billionaire
Maybe strange to us, but they, especially in Western countries, the sequence of life's tragic plight plaguing the wealthy family is like a curse. In fact it is a sad end to give the family of billionaire heir John Paul Getty III of the Getty family - wealthy United States, Christina Onasis known Greek shipping heir of the family, heirs of Johnson & Johnson as well as wealthy Americans, Casey Johnson, Lee Yoon Hyung, daughter of the family of Samsung from Korea South and Edoardo Agnelli, heir to the Fiat car company in Italy?
In fact, they may not know each other have been born in different centuries and continents, but there are similarities that bind them - heir to a business empire worth billions of dollars, but died in the tragic full.

The death of John Paul Getty III, 54, heir to the oil in February, is indeed a surprise to many because it is a terminal sequence of human suffering experienced this. His grandfather, John Paul Getty, oil tycoon billionaire title, a collection of art collector and philanthropist, was named as the richest man the United States in 1957.


Conform to the words of a rich but miserable, even when the cause of death of John Paul Getty III is not disclosed, what was known to her wheelchair and requires intensive medical care since 1981, when an excessive intake of drugs causing paralysis and almost blind. He has been a subject of media coverage in 1973 when kidnapping and ransom demand stands at over U.S. $ 17 million. However, the police rejected claims he was abducted and instead a scam to extort money his grandfather.


Another tragic story behind the life of Christina Onassis. Tell the world smart businessman who had a profit RM3.03
​​billion a day! Greek shipping empire inherited from his father, Aristotle Socrates Onassis and his wife, Athina, Christina was born in a family is considered lucky among the richest in the world. Unfortunately, the chaos in his life began at a young age when his parents divorce, full of disputes in the middle of the 1960s large-scale coverage by the media. He once again became the focus when his father married the widow of President John F. Kennedy, Jacqueline Kennedy in 1968. The media play the story again and follow the course of meetings with opposition, especially Christina Onassis family on marriage.

Chart their own way trying to escape from her life and focus, Christina moved to London and entered Queens College to continue her studies in fashion. But he left behind a few months later, at age 19 years.


Chaos continued hunting when Athina married Stavros Niarchos, who was not only the former in-law, but the biggest rival to the Onassis shipping empire. When newspaper stories that show passion, Christina created the news for themselves by marrying a man 27 years older when he was 20. Onassis family curse begin at the beginning of the 1970s when his brother, Alexander, died in a plane crash in 1973, followed a year later his mother and father in 1975.


Despite the successful control of family business, personal life often overshadowed the achievements Christina and her face often graced the front page of gossip and entertainment news. He is said to collect various types of drugs. In 1985, Christina gave birth to a child with fourth husband, Thierry Roussel, Athina and named, after his mother. Unfortunately, the birth of Athina Christina still quite happy when he was found dead at his home in Argentina due to a heart attack due to drug addiction for many years at the age of 38 years.

The world mourn the loss of iron is recognized by many women as 'natural talent' in business, inherited his father's expertise.

Unfortunately, the curse does not end with the death of Christina instead continue to pursue the life of his only son, Athina. The only heir to the wealth Onassis, Athina, 26, tried to lead a normal life is good, despite growing up in the scandal, tragedy and sudden death.


Blamed on the legacy of luxurious family life, trying to avoid starting a married member of the equestrian sport of Brazil, Alvaro Alfonso de Miranda Neto known as Doda, 38.


The tranquility, however, disrupt the lives of husband and wife when his former lover Doda, Cibele Dorsa, committed suicide by jumping from the seventh storey residence in January.


More embarrassing Athina, a former Playboy model 36-year-old left a suicide note complaining about the rules that allow girls Cibele and Doda, Vivienne and son of actress is the result of the first marriage, Fernando, is maintained by Athina and Doda. Cibele agree both children reared Athina and Doda but it misses the light of her eyes.


Former assistant to Athina's father, Alexis Mantheakis, said the curse returns to haunt Athina Onassis was not affected even to themselves, but targeting those that are associated with it.


Christina shared the same fate with the heir to the empire of the personal care business, Johnson & Johnson. Casey Johnson, 30, was found dead at a house last year. More repulsive when the report mentions the house filled with rats.


He is diagnosed with diabetes when he was a child, Casey grew up to be a wild teenager who forced his family decided to contact him. Drugs and alcohol forced his mother, Sale, get an order keeping foster children, Ava, when Casey refused to undergo treatment to restore the problem of addiction. Once removed from the family, pulled his Porsche and court records show she owes more than RM300 thousand.


Casey reportedly found dead by a maid in his bedroom in West Hollywood on January 4, 2010. However, the report calls on 911 lines revealed Casey died at the house of one friend in Los Angeles when left alone when his friend came out rejoicing.


Unidentified caller reported a body of Casey and her hands cold blue. On February 4, 2010, Los Angeles Coroner's Office announced her death from diabetic ketoacidosis due to neglect of the medicine and do not seek treatment.


The story that hit the heirs of the Korean electronics giant, Samsung, is a bit different but still similar to the finish - a sad death. Lovely, Lee Yoon Hyung, clearly has enough money to meet the deep interest of racing and painting. With an estimated personal wealth of £ 105 (RM514 million) and a degree from a prestigious university in New York and Seoul, should not limit what can be achieved.

His father, Lee Kun-hee, who is a former Chairman of Samsung, is among the richest people in South Korea as the Republic of Samsung dimomokkan frequently.

But it is not clear that Lee sought the life of the end of his life by hanging himself using an electric wire at his home in New York in 2005. Lee was just 26 years old when the suicide decision. Friends Lee said he was getting lonely and depressed since moving to New York after plans to marry her boyfriend because her parents opposed deemed incompatible.


Lee most prominent of the four heirs Samsung as brother and two sister declined to be public.

Self-confidence and charm of the evidence in a personal web site called Pretty Yoon Hyung, which details the life. In Korea, Lee is always controlled at least two bodyguards, and after moving to New York, drivers are available 24 hours accompanied him to the city by limousine.

But Lee stylish life more bleak. Doorman building where she stays sometimes told Lee not out of the residence for a week.


The death of Lee continued to aggravate the situation of the richest, most influential and most full of secrets that have been pursued by the negative publicity, including the exposure of corruption scandals.


However, the death of a business empire and heir to the Fiat car, Edoardo Agnelli, the most shrouded in controversy when death claimed Iran planned furious with Israel because Islam Edoardo action five years before he was found dead in November 2000.


In Italy, Edoardo's death after jumping from a bridge in Turin at the age of 46 years, seen as a tragic suicide, but in Tehran, he was adored as a martyr because it was killed by the Zionist regime.


Edoardo alleged conspiracy began to embrace Islam and Shiite faiths, then Israel decided Fiat agents can not fall into the hands of the Muslims, kill him and make sure the bloody Elkann Jewish family, dynasty, car manufacturers have to manage it. However, the Italian investigators did not find evidence other than death due to suicide.


Edoardo is showing great interest in visiting the school after the founder of Shiite Iranian revolution in 1979, Ayatollah Khomeini. However, graduates of literature and philosophy was also interested in other religions and like to travel to Asia and Africa.


Difficult to find the source of misleading heir millionaire status until their deaths are a sad ending. If the cause of depression and stress, they have sufficient financial resources to obtain expert assistance. Could also be a lack of compassion and the true source of wealth and abundant funds, are not likely to be a substitute for love and the key to happiness.


Petikan Daripada berita/harian 

Monday, June 13, 2011

Enjoy Life -- there is no 2nd chance !!


Enjoy Life -- there is no 2nd chance !!


TO THOSE OF US WHO ARE ALREADY THERE


AND TO THOSE WHO WILL SOON BE THERE
J



The Secrets of Old Age



Before middle age – Do not fear!


After middle age – Do not regret!


Enjoy Your Life While You Can!


Do not wait till you cannot even walk just to be sorry and to regret.


As long as it is physically possible, visit places you wish to visit.




When there is an opportunity, get together with old classmates,


old colleagues & old friends.



The gathering is not just about eating; it’s just that there is not much time left.



Money kept in the banks may not be really yours.


When it is time to spend, just spend, & treat yourself well as you’re getting old.


Whatever you feel like eating, just eat! It is most important to be happy.





Food which are good for health – eat often and more - but that is not everything.


Things which are not good for health – eat less but once in a while


do not abstain from them totally.



Treat sickness with optimism. Whether you are poor or rich,



Everyone has to go through the birth, aging, sickness and death.


There is no exception, that’s life.
Do not be afraid or worried when you are sick.
Settle all the outstanding issues before hand

and you will be able to leave without regret.
God handles your life & loves you,

but be in charge of your own moods

If worries can cure your sickness, then go ahead and worry.

If worries can prolong your life, then go ahead and worry.

If worries can exchange for happiness, then go ahead and worry.

Our kids will make their own fortune.

Look After Four Old Treasures

1.
Your old body – pay more attention to health,
you can only rely on yourself on this.


2.
Retirement fundsmoney that you have earned,
it is best to keep them yourself.


3.
Your old companiontreasure every moment with your other half,



one of you will leave first.




PERFECT LOVE

4.
Your old friendsseize every opportunities to meet up with your friends.

Such opportunities will become rare as time goes by.

WITH FRIENDS, EVERYDAY YOU MUST LAUGH, DANCE & BE HAPPY !!!


Running water does not flow back.


So does life!

ENJOY EVERY MOMENT


God




 

Monday, April 11, 2011

Need comments from those who have cashout

To all my friends, here I announce that I have received a cheque for the second time from fanbox. Welcome to my friends out there do not hesitate to participate in doubt following the blog. We not only got my money but we also got
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Friday, April 8, 2011

Muhamad Razif Aiman Photos

My family's Photos
This is Muhamad Razif Aiman , He is four years old and he is very naughty.

Muhamas Razif Aiman
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Sunday, April 3, 2011

Tip Bagaimana nak mendapat duit Dari Fanbox

  

Jika anda ingin mendapatkan wang dengan blog anda pada FanBox.com, ikuti maklumat sederhana namun penting dan anda akan dibuat di sana dalam masa yang singkat.

Buat Tajuk Menarik

Memikat pembaca dengan tajuk catchy. Fikirkan iklan Jangkar Berita untuk berita mendatang atau judul artikel majalah di rak di kedai runcit. Mereka selalu membuat anda ingin melihat apa yang mereka akan

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Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Know how blessed you are! ..........
Friends.......They love you,
But they're not your lover
They care for you,
But they're
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Tuesday, March 22, 2011

Sarawak Layer Cakes Recipies


LAYER CAKE BLUEBERRY Cheese
Materials
450 gm butter
250 g Philadelphia cream cheese (Kraft brand)
1 tablespoon ovalette
170 gm sugar
10 eggs
1 can (about 400 grams) sweetened condensed milk
300 gm flour Hong Kong
100 gm Horlick
Blueberry pie filling 250 gm
Blueberries 1 teaspoon vanilla essence (optional)
little purple coloring

Method:
1. Beat butter, cream cheese and ovalette well.
2. Add sugar a little bit and continue to beat until fluffy.
3. Add the eggs one-piece and

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Tuesday, March 8, 2011

Ingatlah Kepada Ibumu

Ingatlah Kepada Ibumu

Orang kata aku lahir dari perut ibu..
Bila dahaga, yang susukan aku.. ibu
Bila lapar, yang suapkan aku..ibu
Bila keseorangan, yang sentiasa di sampingku.. ibu
Kata ibu, perkataan pertama yang aku sebut.. Bu!
Bila bangun tidur, aku cari.. ibu
Bila nangis, orang pertama yang datang ..ibu
Bila nak bermanja… aku dekati ibu
Bila nak bergesel… aku duduk sebelah ibu
Bila sedih, yang boleh memujukku hanya ibu
Bila nakal, yang memarahi aku… ibu
Bila merajuk… yang memujukku cuma..ibu
Bila melakukan kesalahan… yang paling cepat
marah..ibu
Bila takut… yang tenangkan aku.. ibu
Bila nak peluk… yang aku suka peluk..ibu

Aku selalu teringatkan ..Ibu
Bila sedih, aku mesti talipon… Ibu
Bila seronok… orang pertama aku nak beritahu… Ibu
Bila bengang.. aku suka luah pada ..Ibu
Bila takut, aku selalu panggil.. “ibuuuuuuuuuuuuu! “
Bila sakit, orang paling risau adalah ..Ibu
Bila nak exam, orang palin g sibuk juga Ibu
Bila buat hal, yang marah aku dulu..Ibu
Bila ada masalah, yang paling risau.. Ibu
Yang masih peluk dan cium aku sampai hari ni.. Ibu
Yang selalu masak makanan kegemaranku. . Ibu
Yang selalu simpan dan kemaskan barang-barang aku, Ibu
Yang selalu berleter kat aku.. Ibu
Yang selalu puji aku.. Ibu
Yang selalu nasihat aku.. Ibu
Bila nak kahwin..
Orang pertama aku tunjuk dan rujuk… Ibu

Aku ada pasangan hidup sendiri
Bila seronok… aku cari pasanganku
Bila sedih… aku cari Ibu
Bila berjaya… aku ceritakan pada pasanganku
Bila gagal… aku ceritakan pada Ibu
Bila bahagia, aku peluk erat pasanganku
Bila berduka, aku peluk erat Ibuku
Bila nak bercuti… aku bawa pasanganku
Bila sibuk… aku hantar anak ke rumah Ibu
Bila sambut valentine… Aku hadiahi bunga pada
pasanganku
Bila sambut hari ibu… aku cuma dapat ucapkan Selamat
Hari Ibu
Selalu… aku ingat pasanganku
Selalu… Ibu ingat kat aku
Bila..bila… aku akan talipon pasanganku
Entah bila.. aku nak talipon Ibu
Selalu… aku belikan hadiah untuk pasanganku
Entah bila…. aku nak belikan hadiah untuk Ibuku

Renungkan:

Dulu Ibu kata: “Kalau kamu sudah habis belajar dan
berkerja… bolehkah kamu kirim wang untuk Ibu? Ibu
bukan nak banyak… lima puluh ringgit sebulan pun
cukuplah”.

Berderai air mata. Hari ini kalau Ibu mahu lima ratus
sebulan pun aku mampu. Aku boleh kirimkan. Tapi Ibu
sudah tiada.

ingatlah pengorbanan ibuuuuu….


Sunday, February 6, 2011

I Can't Trust You Anymore

We both now I can't trust you
You're the one who won't listen
I told you not to do it but you still did
Now I'm broken

You said you don't care
So why are you saying sorry
This fight's going no where
But I don't care

If you have the right to be like that
Then so have I
You wouldn't know coz you're too stubborn
I don't know why

I can't trust you
Because you wouldn't even listen
You don't know what's right and wrong
You never do
You only listen to your self

I'm not gonna warn you again
Because I already did
Lots of time
Now you have to choose
Coz I'm not gonna care anymore
Had enough of that
Because I can't trust you anymore

Thursday, February 3, 2011

Jealousy in a Relationship

Jealousy in a Relationship

Is jealousy ruining your relationship? Are you tired of the pain, embarrassment, and humiliation that jealousy is causing you?
Have you accused or been accused of flirting? Dressing too provocatively? Lying? Seeing someone else secretly?
Perhaps  you are the one who is suspicious of your partner and scrutinizes every  move, causing arguments and driving the two of you apart.
Do you want to stop the endless cycle of fighting and hurt feelings?
If the answer is “yes”, then your relationship needs help now before it’s too late
To  feel jealousy once in awhile is normal and can even be flattering to  your significant other, as it proves how much you care. But, too much  jealousy can indicate a lack of trust and can cause
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Monday, January 31, 2011

Why I Love My Sister

Why I love my sister

The Importance Of A Sister

A sister is someone who loves you from the heart,
No matter how much you argue you cannot be drawn apart.
She is a joy that cannot be taken away,
Once she enters your life, she is there to stay.

A friend who helps you through difficult
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Saturday, January 29, 2011

Remember you


The wind would whisper and I'd think of you
And all the tears you cried, that called my name
And when you needed me I came through

I paint a picture of the days gone by
When love went blind and you would make me see
I'd stare a lifetime into your eyes
So that I knew you were there for me
Time after time you were there for me

Remember yesterday, walking hand in hand
Love letters in the sand, I remember you
Through the sleepless nights and every endless day
I'd wanna hear you say, I remember you

We spend the summer with the top rolled down
Wished ever after would be like this
You said I love you babe, without a sound
I said I'd give my life for just one kiss
I'd live for your smile and die for your kiss

Remember yesterday, walking hand in hand
Love letters in the sand, I remember you
Through the sleepless nights and every endless day
I'd wanna hear you say, I remember you

We've had our share of hard times
But that's the price we paid
And through it all we kept the promise that we made
I swear you'll never be lonely

Woke up to the sound of pouring rain
Washed away a dream of you
But nothing else could ever take you away
'Cause you'll always be my dream come true
Oh my darling, I love you

Remember yesterday, walking hand in hand
Love letters in the sand, I remember you
Through the sleepless nights and every endless day
I'd wanna hear you say, I remember you

Remember yesterday, walking hand in hand
Love letters in the sand, I remember you
Through the sleepless nights and every endless day
I'd wanna hear you say, I remember you

Saturday, January 22, 2011

Kenapa berlaku Penceraian

Ketika pasangan bertemu, jatuh cinta dan rencana mereka "bahagia selamanya" perkahwinan, mereka tidak pernah membayangkan bahawa hubungan mereka akan berakhir pada perceraian. Pada masa ini, satu daripada dua perkahwinan berakhir dengan perceraian dan kebanyakan orang bertanya-tanya apakah sumpah pernikahan memiliki arti apapun di dunia saat ini. Daripada konvensional "sampai kematian memisahkan kita berasingan," sepertinya menjadi perceraian yang tidak pasangan yang paling berasingan. Apa alasan yang telah membuat orang begitu tidak toleran bahawa mereka berada pada mahkamah perceraian memperebutkan butiran kecil seperti meninggalkan kerusi toilet Facebook atau berkongsi tanggung jawab rumah tangga? Di manakah semua kasih dan pengertian pergi ketika pasangan ini terus bertengkar dan tidak bersedia untuk membuat faedah untuk satu sama lain?
Apakah laki-laki menginginkan isteri yang cerdas dan seorang profesional sejati di tempat kerja, sebuah "hottie" di tempat tidur, dan seorang ibu rumah tangga yang sempurna yang melayani semua keperluan sebelum ia vokal menyatakan mereka? Apakah wanita ingin diperlakukan sama dan belum menghindar dari tanggung jawab yang mereka anggap pekerjaan lelaki, yang mereka inginkan untuk menjadi romanced dan tidak melakukan pembahagian dari Romancing sendiri? Apakah media yang menggambarkan jenis tertentu dari pasangan yang berperilaku dengan cara tertentu sebagai berjaya, alasan utama bahawa pasangan yang mempunyai ekspektasi yang tidak bisa dibilang dipenuhi?
Top Alasan mengapa orang bercerai

   
1. Kurangnya pemahaman dan penerimaan rakan kerana masa yang dihabiskan bersama-sama langka.
   
2. Harapan hubungan yang sangat tinggi dan individu tetapi tidak bersedia untuk menempatkan usaha proporsional dan masa ke dalam hubungan.
   
3. kemahiran komunikasi Buruk menyebabkan salah faham atas masalah sepele.
   
4. Perselingkuhan, ketika pasangan merasa bahawa keperluan nya tidak dipenuhi dalam hubungan. Seringkali, dalam hal ini, terlihat dan keserasian seksual adalah yang terpenting.
   
5. Keinginan untuk mengambil jalan keluar yang mudah dan menyebutnya berhenti menguasai kecenderungan untuk berjuang dan bekerja pada hubungan.
Perubahan sosial dan budaya yang telah terjadi selama 2-3 generasi terkini telah membuat keretakan luas dalam cara di mana beberapa hari ini berkaitan satu sama lain berbanding dengan beberapa dekad kembali. Di tahun-tahun sebelumnya, kebanyakan orang tinggal di senario luar bandar di mana mereka mempunyai lebih banyak masa untuk bekerja dan keluarga. Sebaliknya, industrialisasi dan urbanisasi telah mempercepatkan laju kehidupan dan hubungan juga. Saat itu, memilih suami atau isteri didasarkan pada seberapa baik satu pasangan dan orang tua akan menjadi, hari ini telah lebih berkaitan dengan bagaimana seseorang melihat, keserasian seksual, dan faktor lain, yang pasti akan berubah dengan masa, dengan demikian, dooming hubungan dari awal. Tentang 4-5 dekad ke belakang, keluarga makan semua makanan bersama-sama dan dengan demikian punya kesempatan untuk berinteraksi lebih.
Dua atau tiga generasi yang lalu, peranan dalam suatu hubungan yang jelas: orang itu dibawa pulang roti, sementara perempuan merawat keluarga. Dengan perubahan dalam masyarakat, laki-laki dan perempuan telah menjadi profesional yang kompeten, hal ini disebabkan garis peranan-bermain untuk mengaburkan dalam hubungan. Kerana tidak ada lagi ketergantungan apapun, mereka boleh melakukannya tanpa satu sama lain. Mengetahui hal ini membuat lebih mudah untuk memutuskan hubungan atas masalah terkecil ketika salah satu atau kedua-dua pasangan tidak puas. Wang juga menjadi isu utama dalam perkahwinan. Sebuah perjanjian perkahwinan sama baiknya dengan mengatakan bahawa anda tidak memiliki iman dalam kesucian perkahwinan atau pasangan anda. Perceraian tidak perlu tujuan akhir untuk berkahwin jika para rakan belajar untuk memprioritaskan keperluan hubungan dan menyediakannya waktu, perhatian dan kasih sayang yang layak.